Census question slammed as “insensitive”

A question on this year's Census has left grieving mothers in tears.

By Taylah Eastwell

The wording of a question on this year’s Census has become a subject of controversy, with many women taking to social media to express the feelings it triggered.

The Australian Bureau of Statistics asked participants ‘how many babies has (name) ever given birth to?’, prompting painful memories of still-births and miscarriages for grieving families.

Participants were told to exclude any foster, adopted and step children.

Red Nose Co-Chief Executive Officer, Jackie Mead said she was disappointed to see the question worded so poorly, saying it could be “so offensive to many women, including the women who have lost a baby”.

“Many women have told us they are upset and confused about the abrupt way this question was worded and many were left in tears while completing their census.

“Sadly, one in four Australian pregnancies end in miscarriage and one in 135 ends in stillbirth. This is an issue that affects so many women,” she said.

A spokesperson from Yarra Ranges mum’s group, Mums of the Hills, said local mums were upset by the lack of prior warning they had for the question.

 

“While this question would be difficult at any time for mums who have experienced this kind of loss, it would be particularly tough for mums who have suffered through lockdown without traditional support networks,” the spokesperson said.
Mums of the Hills believe a statement at the start of future Census’s that acknowledges how questions may affect people in a range of ways, would go some way towards preparing people.
“The question also denied motherhood to mums who did not birth their children, a fact that has upset many.
“We appreciate the Census has to balance being brief with collecting enough information to inform future policy, but what you don’t ask is as important as what you do ask. Expanding this question could have informed future health policies and provided greater insight into the diversity of our families today,” the spokesperson said.
Star Mail’s online readers also weighed in on the issue.
Angela said “I was actually relieved to be asked that question and have my late miscarried child acknowledged. Nobody remembers her/him except me.”
Erin said she was glad she wasn’t the only one who considered the question odd.
“Even the way the question was asked was certainly open to interpretation,” she said.
Michelle said “years ago it was upsetting because the Census question didn’t ask about children that had passed”.
“I think I’d rather my stillborn child acknowledged rather than forgotten,” she said. 

 

Red Nose said it is available anytime should the ABS wish to contact them about future Census questions that may adversely affect women’s mental health, particularly the many grieving the loss of a much wanted baby.

“Red Nose Day on Friday this week helps fund our 24/7 grief and loss support services, and we encourage women feeling upset today to call us on the Red Nose Grief and Loss 24/7 Support Line 1300 308 307.”